6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

Ben bu benim Lane'e kızıyorum ama kız arada işe yarıyor. Facebook'ta bir yazı paylaşmış ben de buraya koymak istedim. Okurken insanı acayip sinirlendiriyor çünkü gerçekleri söylüyor. Ben daha çocukken bana bunları söyleselermiş keşke. Hemen başlığa bakıp da Secret gibi saçma bir kişisel gelişim tavsiyesi demeyin. Neyi nasıl yapacağınızı söylemiyor bile, sadece insanların size nasıl baktığını çok güzel özetlemiş. Bazılarının neden daha başarılı ve değerli olduğunu. Hani diyoruz ya neden O bunları elde etmişken ben daha fazlasını hak ettiğim halde bir hiçim diye, işte onun cevabı. Biraz fazla uzun ama sıkılmazsanız siz de bir göz atın derim.

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Bunlarda tüm yazının sonundan bir alıntı;

And so on. Remember, misery is comfortable. It's why so many people prefer it. Happiness takes effort.

Also, courage. It's incredibly comforting to know that as long as you don't create anything in your life, then nobody can attack the thing you created.

It's so much easier to just sit back and criticize other people's creations. This movie is stupid. That couple's kids are brats. That other couple's relationship is a mess. That rich guy is shallow. This restaurant sucks. This Internet writer is an asshole. I'd better leave a mean comment demanding that the website fire him. See, I created something.

Oh, wait, did I forget to mention that part? Yeah, whatever you try to build or create -- be it a poem, or a new skill, or a new relationship -- you will find yourself immediately surrounded by non-creators who trash it. Maybe not to your face, but they'll do it. Your drunk friends do not want you to get sober. Your fat friends do not want you to start a fitness regimen. Your jobless friends do not want to see you embark on a career.

Just remember, they're only expressing their own fear, since trashing other people's work is another excuse to do nothing. "Why should I create anything when the things other people create suck? I would totally have written a novel by now, but I'm going to wait for something good, I don't want to write the next Twilight!" As long as they never produce anything, their work will forever be perfect and beyond reproach. Or if they do produce something, they'll make sure they do it with detached irony. They'll make it intentionally bad to make it clear to everyone else that this isn't their real effort. Their real effort would have been amazing. Not like the shit you made.

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